If you think you can't do it...... YOU MUST.

It's interesting to sit and reflect on your life every few years and think about where you've been, and where you are going.   It's definitely an interesting experience for me personally, because I could never imagine I would be where I am today.  Most of my family, not so lucky.

But I do remember thinking, KNOWING, I would never "be able to..." so many things.  I defy myself over and over again.  I think the key here is to aim higher than you ever think possible.  A friend told me that they were going to aim higher than ever so that when they settle somewhere just below, it'll be the most amazing place.  I have to agree here.

But when you think so big, it can be overwhelming.  I mean, looking 250 steps in advance, it's a little difficult to take the first step.  The thing is... every journey does begin with the first step.  How cliche'?  Yep.  and sooooooooooo true.  Because years down the road when you look back, you'll see that you've accomplished those goals, or you are well on your way.  You won't even remember taking that first, 20th or 100th step.  It'll seem like a lifetime ago. 

Fear and intimidation are the devil's way of keeping you down.  YOU HEAR ME?!  You want something, you get it.  Whether you can get it in one hour, one month, one year or a lifetime.  Because when you get "it", the reward won't be what you thought it would be... it won't be the goal.  It will surely be all the life long lessons learned along the way.  All of the people you met, who are now a part of your life forever that helped you get there.  And all of the memories you made with each step.  The "it"  you began your journey for won't even really matter anymore.  It'll be a reward of so many other gifts received.

It won't be easy, you'll have to take risks, leave people behind, face judgments and jealousy from others.... but those are the times when you'll learn the most about who you are, who is in your life, and what you deserve.

So when you hear someone say all of those cliche's that drive you up the wall, remember, every journey begins with one step.... and every single thing in life can be yours with just a little patience, a bit of optimism, and a lot of support... only of your choice though.  Always surround yourself with those you want to be like; whether it's monetarily, of the same faith, morally, or professionally. 

The path of least resistance is for sure, not always the best.  And usually the worst.

Sitting around complaining and blaming and filling the world with your negative energy is only pushing those who can benefit you and support you away the most.  It's not only wasting your time, but anyone else who is in earshot's time too.  If you put more energy into obtaining your goal...watch how much faster it arrives....

Confucius for the day,

Hoss