Monday, February 6, 2012

faith.

Faith.   Think about this for a second.  What does Faith mean to you?  Most of the time in society faith is used in terms of religion.  Because you can't see it, you can't touch it, but you know it's there. 
 What is the opposite of this?  I would say fear of the unknown.  So is the definition of faith really embracing the unknown?  Why does this always have to relate to religion?  I have faith in God.  He's shown me why.  I'm not here to exemplify why I feel that way, or prove to someone why that is. It's Mine.  However, I think that faith is an under-used word/emotion that we need to explain and define more.

Faith is our way of accepting the present, because we can't predict the future.

Think about faith.  You really have it in every aspect of your life.  Here are some examples:

You have faith that the job you are in will either a) get you to point B or b) maintain your life until the next chapter determines where you go. 

Don't you have faith every. single. year December 31st, that next year will be THE year?  You don't know, but you have faith that that's when everything positive that hasn't happened yet, will happen.

You have faith that you have chosen the right life partner.  The right "Life Style" if you will.  Because isn't the person you choose to be with the life style you embrace as well?  If who you love doesn't influence your life I don't know what else does more.

You use faith as a reason to explain why you're life has brought you to this "place".   I dated someone once (or twice...three times a...) :P  that said to me they thought faith was an emotion that people used as an excuse to explain all of the bad things that happened in their life.  That people who had "faith", whether it was in God/Religion, or in the exquisite phrase, "everything happens for a reason" was just a fools way to make themselves feel like they had a place in a world of unforgiving experiences. 

Let that one sink in for a second.

That one almost got me.  I thought about that for days, years really.  Until I realized that my opinion on that explanation, was that it was horseshit.  That was a cynics way of thinking themselves into such a negative state of mind, the only way they could feel better about those who were happy, "even though...." so many things had happened to them.....they really are hopelessly jealous of that feeling of contentment.  It's their only way to explain why they AREN'T. 

Ahem.  Ok.  I've gotten off track.

You have faith that when you get in the car, you'll pay attention enough, the other people on the street will pay attention enough, to keep you safe.

You have faith that tomorrow will be another day.  So even though you are mad about XYZ, you'll just deal with it tomorrow. 

You have to have faith that every decision you chose to make is the best one for you, your life or your situation.

You have faith that one day your body will just be okay with everything and will stop trying to "find all the answers".  I hate to tell you, but this is the journey folks.  Have faith, I do.  But one day you'll realize that this road you are speeding down, trying to "get through" is it.  This is it.  And those Faith-less people who hate on acceptance of experience, will wish they had a little more Faith that this is their life, and honestly, they need to take the lead role.  This was some of the most profound advice anyone's ever given me. 

THIS IS YOUR LIFE.  THIS IS NOT A DRESS REHEARSAL.  YOU NEED TO TAKE THE LEAD ROLE. 

So have faith.  Your faith.  In whatever it is you have faith in.  Don't look to others for acceptance or relatability of your faith.  Just know that faith is a calmness.  If you choose to share it in church, in friendships, in relationships... if you chose to identify with others through faith.... amazing.  If not, remember it's yours.  and you define it. 

Feeling a little pensive tonight... no apologies.  I have FAITH you'll either identify or relate to this in some way :)

Faithfully inspired while writing,

Hoss

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